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Black Love Live | The Right Questions to Ask for Deeper Understanding of Relationships

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Our couples open the conversation to our live Los Angeles Audience. Tune in to see the unfiltered Q&A segment!


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"Whatever you won't deal with will deal with you" Dondre Whitfield.

Author — ldyblssd

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'The little things are never about the little things'. Touché, young lady.

Author — Batirtze Urkiaga

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Melissa is in her bag. Come on Queen!!! She needs her own show!

Author — cherishdeb

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Melissa is the motherflipping GOAT! lord this woman is so intellectual and has grown within herself in so many ways and I love it!

Author — katharine edwards

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Melissa radiates! This is clearly her passion!!

Author — Marveline B.

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I have to say...Kevin's wife....😍😍😍😍!!!He married a Nubian Queen for real.

Author — drtash21

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Yes Melissa!!! When you sit down with a professional, you will learn that anger is a secondary emotion. We can assist with identifying that primary emotion. 🤓🙌✊🏾🖤

Author — 2Lovelifedaily

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To the first question: I think his wife might be depressed and need healing. If she does not want to do anything including washing dishes, that is an indication of something deeper.

Author — jordane smith

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I feel like no one really “listened” to the first question and the statements he made 🤦🏾‍♀️. I was irritated that they asked him about sex several times after he made it clear that is question was general and across the board. Plus, he also stated that he knows his wife would be able to sense if he doesn’t wanna do something, so he coaxes himself into genuinely wanting to do the things she suggests. He wants to know how he can influence/inspire her to give him the same in return across the board. He mentioned dishes, but that wasn’t his focus, it was a general example because he was under pressure to try to find a way to explain himself. I believe either his wife may not feel that he is fulfilling her love languages and therefore feels a lack of interest in fulfilling his desires and/or may be going through depression. My advice would’ve been to first clearly communicate with his wife, find out why she continuously rejects trying out things with him and then also express to his wife how this makes him feel emotionally. So that they may hear one another beyond the surface of words. Then see, how they can take baby steps towards filling one another’s love tanks going forward. This man did not sound like he was trying to change his wife...he just wants to spend time with her in ways that interests him, just as he spends time with her doing what interests her...simple. And I’m annoyed how the female host didn’t even wanna address this man’s sincere concern because of how she decided to perceive him 😒

Author — Katriana LaTara

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Melissa you should get a degree in this!! You're really good at analyzing ad articulating it!!

Author — Marveline B.

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Melissa 👏🏾 said👏🏾 it👏🏾 perfectly!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Author — AlllSmiless

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Am I the only one super annoyed he has his foot on a white couch??? Uggghhhh

Author — KinkCurlandGo

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I love that, “we are the most traumatized people in this country” “whatever you don’t deal with will deal with #therapy

Author — Yesenia Esther Reyes Delacruz Bunting

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Ok Kevin and his wife (didn't catch her name) should be hosting this! They got all the gems and seems like the most authentic out of the other couples

Author — Ally B

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1st question, the way he said "ladies" gave me the hebegeebees. He sounds like he still out in those streets. It also sounds like his wife is going through something. Possibly depression.

Author — love_dionne

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you betta tell it. "Un met expectations can be dangerous" Thats it right there.

Author — AngelC

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Good answer about bickering about lil things meaning bigger things (consideration)

Author — Chanel5

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Ok this first guy with a question need to sit down and gather his agree with the love language “acts of service”, that’s my language but my hubby still doesn’t get that., this can really cause problems, whew!

Author — Sharon B

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"We both worked really hard to find our way back to each other." So strong. Unity in action. 👏🏼👏🏼

Author — Amber Bright

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Why don't the Hostess allow her mate to speak, he was making a good point and she just interrupted. As a woman I want to hear a man perspective on these topics.

Author — Ally B